tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-165971222024-03-13T12:04:36.197-04:00Journey NotesEmilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.comBlogger557125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-66483408071887182942012-10-31T17:31:00.001-04:002012-10-31T17:31:34.986-04:0031 Days of Christmas Planning - the WrapUp<br />
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In some ways, I feel like I exhausted the topic of getting ready for Christmas, and in some ways I think I could do another 31 days on the subject. In all ways, I am pretty glad to have some space to write about some more 'random' things as I journey along. I still have quite a bit of work to do with my own Christmas planning. (Do you know it is only 21 days till Thanksgiving?!) </div>
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I hit my original goal of getting all my thoughts written down so that in the future, I have my list of all that I want to remember to do. </div>
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Here is a landing page of all my posts from this series (for me and you):</div>
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<a href="http://www.hopecaptive.com/blog/31-days-of-christmas-planning-october-2012/"><b><i>http://www.hopecaptive.com/blog/31-days-of-christmas-planning-october-2012/</i></b></a></div>
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Also, this post marks the end of hopecaptive.blogspot.com. I am permanently migrating my JourneyNotes over to <a href="http://hopecaptive.com/">hopecaptive.com</a>. Please take a minute to visit my new and in renovation space. I look forward to continuing the journey over there.</div>
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<br />Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-56570379882261495472012-10-30T16:52:00.000-04:002012-10-31T16:54:36.704-04:0031 days of Christmas Planning - Be Generous<br />
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I just got home from a conference where I learned about <a href="https://www.purecharity.com/home" target="_blank">Pure Charity</a>. Pure Charity is a new player in the giving arena. It sort of takes social media, groupon and credit cards rewards programs, a ton of corporate partners, and some great non-profits and mixes it all together. (That's terribly oversimplified - you should watch the <a href="https://www.purecharity.com/learn-more" target="_blank">video here</a>.)</div>
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What I love about this is that our credit cards and stores have already trained us to be rewards members - earning money, credit or savings. This just takes those already well-developed habits, and makes it so you have a giving account. </div>
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Through Pure Charity, I learned about Generous Tuesday. We have Black Friday, Cyber Monday, and now Generous Tuesday. </div>
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It is my experience that the holidays - and not just the gift giving part - often make me feel squeezed. There isn't enough of me, my time, my creativity, my money. </div>
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But you know what? That is just not true. </div>
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We are more than enough. We bring to the holiday table all the uniqueness and creativity and joy that we were born with. It might not look like your neighbors or sister-in-laws or Martha Stewarts. AND IT SHOULDN'T. </div>
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The best antidote to feeling squeezed, in my experience, is giving. Make it a priority to give your money, your time, yourself. </div>
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Check out <a href="https://www.purecharity.com/" target="_blank">Pure Charity</a>.</div>
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Remember <a href="http://generoustuesday.com/" target="_blank">Generous Tuesday</a>. </div>
Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-76276346580094608862012-10-29T14:46:00.000-04:002012-10-31T14:47:04.882-04:0031 day of Christmas Planning - Homeschool During the HolidaysOne of the many blessings that comes with homeschooling is the flexibility that allows different routines and plans.<br />
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Holiday seasons are perfect times to take advantage of our flexibility.<br />
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In the past we have:<br />
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<li>done our regularly scheduled school at a muuucchhh sllloooowwweeerr pace</li>
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For years, I made matching pajamas. But I became increasingly frustrated with our local fabric shops' (there are two shops) selection of winter flannel (and the prices). One year, I did the math and realized how much I would save if I just bought pajamas -both in time and money. Maybe someday I'll go back to making the pajamas- it is rather romantic - but this year, I'll be shopping for them. Sometimes I have tired to match our colors, and sometimes I have enjoyed getting just the right set for each of the kids distinct personality's. </div>
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Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-48331757326122718822012-10-27T08:00:00.000-04:002012-10-27T08:00:02.862-04:0031 days of Christmas Planning - friendsI love getting gifts for friends. I don't do it often, because I am working hard to live within a responsible budget, but when I get to do it, it gives me great joy. Christmas is such a fun season, and sometimes I see pretty or fun things that I know would be AHMAZING for FriendSuchAndSo. If I bought or made everything that would be perfect for everyone - the bottom line might begin to look neon red.<br />
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So as I'm thinking about this ahead of time this year, it occurs to me that I have a couple options.<br />
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We all have seasons when we are dry and lonely and just trudging through. Watch your friends for those times, and get a gift that uniquely says 'I love you Friend'. You could even wrap it in Christmas paper if if makes you feel better. Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-25220812194095890532012-10-25T23:29:00.000-04:002012-10-25T23:40:34.648-04:00FiveMinuteFriday meets 31 days Of Christmas Planning IN REAL LIFE<br />
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This post was written at an InRealLife Party <a href="http://lisajobaker.com/2012/10/a-live-five-minute-friday/" target="_blank">Five Minute Friday</a> party at the Allume Conference. There was a room full of women who all wrote for five minutes together and then lots got up and read their posts in an open mic setting. It was seriously one of the coolest things I've ever been a part of.</div>
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It's Christmas time! Don't be quiet. </div>
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Rejoice!</div>
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How will I use my voice this Christmas? To grumble at the traffic or crowds. </div>
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So while I'm making my plans for our core family, there is always the lingering anticipation - sometimes good, sometimes bad - of what other people expect and how they will (or won') feel loved.<br />
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ALAS (or THANKFULLY), I am not the God of the universe and I will not be the answer to their emotional needs during the holidays. FURTHER, it is my FIRST job to love my husband and kids and to guide a worshipful Christmas season for them.<br />
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When it comes to gifts for extended family, it has boiled down to budget and to time needed to execute:<br />
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<li>Some years we consolidate the adults and get one gift per couple.</li>
<li>A couple years we donated things in honor of our family (like through Heifer International - that made someone made and it kind of ruined it for me a few years). </li>
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No matter how ninja I am or you are at planning and preparing for Christmas, there will be times when there is too much to do, too many places to be, too many people needing you. Unless you have the powers of Elastigirl, your flexibility will be tried.<br />
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Only you know what your spirit needs to renew it. But consider putting a few of those on the calendar RIGHT NOW.<br />
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<li>Make a date with a good friend. Put it on the calendar now.</li>
<li>Do you have a friend that you love to pray with? Calendar... now. </li>
<li>Make a date or two or four with your husband. They don't have to be expensive, but purpose to NOT talk about engagements in the month or things that need to be picked up. </li>
<li>Buy a candle. Put it on your calendar (and your husbands) to sit in a quiet place to read or write with your candle.</li>
<li>Buy a book or magazine. Plan an evening (maybe one a week) of reading with a nice glass of wine in bed. </li>
<li>Plan a bath. </li>
<li>Color and draw with your kids.</li>
<li>Exercise. Do yoga. </li>
<li>Eat fruit. </li>
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I grew up with a Christmas stocking tradition that included opening up stockings on almost everyone's bed in the house on Christmas morning. It was kind of a progressive stocking opening. It was great fun. (I didn't realize how weird it was until Marc and I spent our first Christmas married with my parents and we were all sitting on my parents bed.) We did stockings the way we did presents. All attention on one person at a time as we noticed and appreciated each piece.<br />
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Fast forward to when Marc and I had kids and realized how much stuff they could accumulate in just one month with no birthdays or holidays. The amount a kid might get during gift giving seasons is alarming! And we realized that what we were buying to put in their stockings didn't line up with some of our family values.... cheap toys that were made in questionable facilities that would break soon or candy seemed the easiest to fill the large space of the stockings.<br />
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<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-mcZVjpQ-AqU/UHA7V5TTdsI/AAAAAAAAMR4/Qaev-hqKsCA/s1600/31days.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-mcZVjpQ-AqU/UHA7V5TTdsI/AAAAAAAAMR4/Qaev-hqKsCA/s1600/31days.jpg" /></a>So some years we have done stockings, and some years we haven't. Stocking stuffers have been the one thing that I have allowed myself to shop for in December when we have done them. I find that I really do like being in the shops in our downtown during this time of year and I like supporting the businesses down there.<br />
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This blog is 100% for me. If you like you can use it to. But this will the the Christmas season that will be known as the year we knew where the recipes were and didn't have to pull out every book or box to look for it. It will be here. Foreverafter.<br />
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<u><b><i><span style="font-size: large;">Wassail</span></i></b></u><br />
1c sugar<br />
1q water<br />
12 whole cloves<br />
4 sticks of cinnamon<br />
4 whole allspirce (or 1/2tsp ground)<br />
1/4tsp ground ginger (this could be the root, too, but I don't know how big)<br />
3c orange juice<br />
1c lemon juice or 4 lemons<br />
2qts apple cider<br />
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6T margarine or butter<br />
2T worcestshire sauce<br />
1 1/4t Lawrys' seasoning salt<br />
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2 2/3 c each corn chex, rice chex, wheat chex, cheerios, crispix<br />
1 c nuts (I like peanuts. Marc keeps trying to get creative with this ingredient.)<br />
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Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-84977968216143448012012-10-21T08:00:00.000-04:002012-10-21T08:00:04.461-04:0031 days - the Jesse Tree Tradition <a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bdVKN1Ii9Ak/UIM6eT0lfKI/AAAAAAAAMVc/Rf93CIsEDbI/s1600/DSC01437.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bdVKN1Ii9Ak/UIM6eT0lfKI/AAAAAAAAMVc/Rf93CIsEDbI/s200/DSC01437.JPG" width="150" /></a>When our son was born 13 years I stumbled onto a tradition that we have done almost every year since his birth - having a Jesse Tree. Neither of us had grown up with it, but searching the internet (on dial-up) all those years back, I found something called The Jesse Tree.<br />
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Jesse Tree, a reference from Isaiah 11:1, is a tour through the New Testament Scriptures tracing the family tree and prophecies that all lead up to the birth of Jesus. There are a couple different versions that include different stories and each advent has a different number of days so some years not all the stories are used.<br />
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At that time, there were three sites (that's all!) that had information.<br />
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The first year (or two or three?), we did our Jesse Tree on the refrigerator. I would make a Christmas tree shape out of construction paper, and while Marc or I read the Scripture, the kid (or kids eventually) would color in the 'ornament' and then we would tape it to the refrigerator tree.<br />
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When I began looking for something more permanent, all that I could find were patterns for cross-plastic canvas or cross-stitch - which I had no real talent for, no desire to get better at, and no time even if I did want to.<br />
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This combination of children, time, and the somewhat fragile constitution, a couple ornaments are broken each year. Getting ready for this tradition include repairing or making new ornaments; and getting all of our devotional and Scripture resources gathered together and organized.<br />
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(During November and December, I will be sharing more about our Jesse Tree - including pictures of our polymer clay ornaments.)<br />
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<br />Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-21010410173169952832012-10-20T17:52:00.001-04:002012-10-20T17:52:35.269-04:0031days of Christmas Planning - About Planning<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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20 days into 31 days and I am amazed that I have gotten this far. The momentum of committing to have a post for every day of the month (thank GOD for scheduled post) has been an incredible experience.<br />
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I wanted to take a bit of a side-trail today to explain what planning means to me. I've had a number of friends say 'you are so organized'.<br />
I want to make sure I have integrity in representing myself in this blog series.<br />
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I am organized. My life requires that I be organized - my husband travels a ton and I homeschool three very different kids at three very different levels. I am good at creating and analyzing systems. I have learned this about myself in the last few years. I am good at getting projects started, but not maintaining them long-term.<br />
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<b><i>My follow-through on most things is about average. </i></b><br />
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When I read through my posts up to this point, I can see that some work has been done in each instance. Just the writing and thinking about it are work. I'm "analyzing my systems" in a relatively non-stressful atmosphere. In some cases, some good active work has been done (the Christmas card is almost ready to order) and in other cases, I'm still 'just thinking'.<br />
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<b><i>The beauty of a focused time of planning is that it has set my compass</i></b>. I am making decisions and plans now, in a 'non-hostile' environment, about what I want our Holiday Season to include and encompass.Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-83176586789527956562012-10-19T09:36:00.000-04:002012-10-19T09:36:24.984-04:0031 days meets #fiveminutefriday: LOOK<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px;">As I began participating in the 31days blog challenge with </span><a href="http://www.thenester.com/2012/09/31-dayers-2012.html" style="background-color: white; color: #006677; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">thenester</a><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px;"> (and good friends</span><a href="http://networkedblogs.com/D3qow" style="background-color: white; color: #006677; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Elisa</a><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px;"> and </span><a href="http://spring.gouette.com/?p=2718" style="background-color: white; color: #006677; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Spring</a><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px;">), I had already told a group of women that I would commit to four FiveMinuteFridays - just to try the whole 'link up' thing. I decided that it would be a fun challenge (and maybe a disaster that I could laugh about) do this along with the 31 day blog challenge. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">#fiveminutefriday meet 31days of Christmas preparation. The word this week: </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">How many things have I missed because I was hurrying to get things done - especially during the holiday season? How many eyes full of discovery and hearts full of wonder have I not seen? How many beautiful, humble displays have I overlooked as I sought the SHINIEST, BRIGHTEST, EASIEST?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I can't think of a better code word for Christmas planning. Like a super-power cue to stop, sit, and BE. </span><br />
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<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-rgx4Umx77Lg/UIFXLkwJKXI/AAAAAAAAMVA/EdpEmk8Ehi0/s1600/IMAG0813.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-rgx4Umx77Lg/UIFXLkwJKXI/AAAAAAAAMVA/EdpEmk8Ehi0/s320/IMAG0813.jpg" width="240" /></a><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">LOOK at the child staring in wonder at the lights on the tree in the middle of town.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">LOOK at your eyes of the 80yr old who is listening to the Christmas story for the 80th time. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">LOOK into your heart and let it wonder as you imagine LOOKING at the star. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">LOOKing draws us into community. LOOKing draws us into further relationship with the BabyAbba.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Perhaps the phrase for crossing the street that we all learned (didn't we) and have taught our littles, could signal a new plan for Christmas. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">STOP. LOOK. LISTEN. </span><br />
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Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-41534260899777353732012-10-18T12:59:00.001-04:002012-10-18T22:41:51.596-04:0031 days - When Our Kids buy Gifts<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody>
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I think helping a child to choose and purchase or make a gift for their sibling (and others) can be one of the greatest discipleship opportunities.<br />
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When money or resources need to be spent, there is the opportunity to talk about stewardship.</div>
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There is the conversation about keeping secrets that are fun and harmless and keeping secrets that are painful and sinful. (This conversation should happen more than once a year.)</div>
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It is a great time to talk about the reason for the season, over and over again, and to talk about why or why not gifts are an appropriate way to celebrate.<br />
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Remember, kids generally don't do well with 'hurry hurry hurry' decisions or processes. Begin to ask them this week if they have some ideas about Christmas giving this year.<br />
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It is also hard for kids (and my MotherInLaw) to hold onto a gift once they have picked it out, so you may want to write down those ideas and buy them much closer to GiftGiving day.</div>
Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-62424072481546940042012-10-17T17:53:00.001-04:002012-10-17T17:53:32.204-04:0031days of Christmas Preparation - Movies
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We love watching movies. A lot. Along with our Christmas music collection, we have begun to collect Christmas movies. Additionally, Netflix has some crazy old and obsolete Christmas movies. </div>
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<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-mcZVjpQ-AqU/UHA7V5TTdsI/AAAAAAAAMR4/Qaev-hqKsCA/s1600/31days.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-mcZVjpQ-AqU/UHA7V5TTdsI/AAAAAAAAMR4/Qaev-hqKsCA/s1600/31days.jpg" /></a>Last year we found that we couldn't find a particular movie that we KNEW we had (White Christmas, I think). We spent time scrambling through the places it could/should be and then looking for it on Netflix or AmazonPrime. It was such an attention suck. </div>
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This week I'm going to take time to gather all the Christmas movies and see if any are missing. I'm also going to go through my Netflix Instant Queue and do some purging and adding of titles that we might enjoy as a family during the holiday season. </div>
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Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-78650458521731909512012-10-16T11:52:00.000-04:002012-10-16T11:52:21.788-04:0031 days - Calendaring Christmas Preparation<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Lh4CGX_3_P0/UH2CK-WNKuI/AAAAAAAAMUk/D5X-aPZeVi0/s1600/calendar.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Lh4CGX_3_P0/UH2CK-WNKuI/AAAAAAAAMUk/D5X-aPZeVi0/s200/calendar.png" width="200" /></a>Now is a great time to look ahead to Thanksgiving (are you aware how early it is this year) through to the New Year and begin to plot things on the calendar.<br />
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<li>Family gatherings</li>
<li>Work parties</li>
<li>Church celebrations</li>
<li>Band concerts</li>
<li>Vacation Time</li>
<li>Shopping days</li>
<li>Crafting days</li>
<li>Christmas Tree</li>
<li>Other house decorations</li>
<li>Get the car cleaned before the holidays</li>
<li>Any Doctor appointments that need to be scheduled this time of year</li>
<li>Hair appointments (Nail appointments - my favorite)</li>
<li>Cooking days</li>
<li>Shipping days</li>
<li>Craft Fairs</li>
<li>Date(s) with husband</li>
<li>Taking kids shopping days (those really have to be separate from your own shopping days)</li>
<li>Designated stay at home and BE STILL time</li>
<li>Living Nativity</li>
<li>Santa Parade</li>
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What did I miss? What else needs to go on the calendar?Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-64582416846358433762012-10-15T14:49:00.001-04:002012-10-15T14:49:21.443-04:0031 days - the journey of traditionsAs a child, you do Christmas the way your parents do Christmas. You don't ask questions. You might or might not realize as you grow older that you can take the initiative in giving (and even using your own money). You more or less do what is done in your home of origin.<br />
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At some point your adult life might merge with another adult. and especially if that includes a spouse who had parents who did Christmas differently, it gets tricky (like a minefield is tricky).<br />
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Then there is the season when you become the parent and you evaluate 'is this how we want to do it with our family?'<br />
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Each year we ask 'how will these decisions/traditions' genuinely mark the celebration of Christ's birth and the anticipation of His coming again in our nuclear family. We have been at this for 17 years, 13 years as parents. Some of the questions are pretty well ironed out. Some require new or more attention each year.<br />
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Traditions include everything from social events during the month, how Christmas Eve and Christmas Day are spent, the ways gifts are given (and opened), and food traditions. Some are clear mine-fields and some are totally surprising.<br />
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For us, we have clung to verses about "leaving and cleaving" and the blessing of our families that we are a new family unit as well as sought to "Honor our mothers and fathers". (We also don't believe Honoring involves having our emotions or children manipulated. That is a whole other blog topic that I will write about in .... close to 15 years when I see how I am walking it out with my adult children.)<br />
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We have some traditions that we have ironed (IRONED) out with grace, and some with mess, but each year it has come down to 'can we both live with this decision' AND 'we believe we are stewarding our children's hearts' AND 'we feel like these choices will grow our family's relationship with Christ'. We also take a look at our choices each year, just as we do with homeschool. Is what we did last year what we are supposed to do this year?<br />
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Imperfect, but in progress for sure.<br />
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<br />Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-11819365077647806642012-10-14T18:37:00.000-04:002012-10-14T18:37:36.932-04:0031 days - The Music Tradition<img alt="" border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=thepitmanscom-20&l=as2&o=1&a=B00006D2T8" style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" width="1" />
Last Sunday I wrote about our book tradition. Today I'm going to write about our Music tradition.<br />
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I have an obscene number of Christmas albums. And I would listen to them all year, if I could. (I have also been known to not realize ONE song was on repeat for several hours - so, well, you know.) There are only a couple Christmas songs that I will turn skip - no, I'm not a fan of Grandma Getting Run Over, or anything the Chipmunks sing, or Carmen. This is a time of year when I can love many qualities and many styles. </div>
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Just as we get a new Christmas book each year, we get a new cd. Some years it has been the one on the counter at the hardware store or Starbucks. (Yes, I like both places equally.) Other years it has been an intentional choice that reflected an experience or interest in our family. Last year, because Caleb has blossomed into such a wonderful trumpet player, our album was a Canadian Brass album.</div>
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I have an artist in mind for this year, but it involves a surprise adventure that we are having in December. (sshhh)</div>
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What are your favorite Christmas albums? What are your least favorite albums? If you don't like Christmas music, add your name below and I can pray for you ;)</div>
Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-80916816743701048432012-10-13T09:42:00.000-04:002012-10-13T09:42:11.013-04:0031 days of Christmas Preparation - My Husband<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-KKqNNbnRy0s/UHdnO-7QSsI/AAAAAAAAMUI/cQkjL4RswLE/s1600/wedding10145.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-KKqNNbnRy0s/UHdnO-7QSsI/AAAAAAAAMUI/cQkjL4RswLE/s200/wedding10145.JPG" width="135" /></a><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The hardest gift choice for me to make each year is for my husband. In my mind, it is so important that I most often end up freezing. And putting it off till the week before. And settling for something I want to apologize for. And it just feels icky.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">One of the reasons that it is hard to get him stuff is because we spent many years making the kids gifts the financial priority. We would get stuff for them. And if there was money left-over then we would spend it on each other. So much like life if you're not careful.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Another reason it is hard for me to buy for him - he has weird (and expensive) taste. My husband is brilliant in ways that I am not. I am brilliant in ways that he is not. "<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;">he's got gaps, I got gaps, together we fill gaps." </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;">My best Christmas present for him was the year I got the whole family to pitch in a buy him a beer making kit. I don't entirely get it, but he loves it. It makes him happy. And he's cute. </span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;">The third reason it is hard to buy him a gift (or gifts) is that we are generous with each other year round, and we don't have a whole lot that we need. </span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;">But I'm not satisfied with my excuses. I want to score the 'beer making Christmas' again. So my first attention (or agonizing) is going to start with what to get Marc. </span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;">It's impossible to think about gifts in isolation. To say something like "I won't think about what I'm going to get anyone else until I get Marc's present" would be ridiculous. </span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;">But I am starting now, and I am committing to not getting overwhelmed and stalling myself out. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Not everyone likes to plan ahead. Not everyone is wired to plan ahead. Some people like the last minute rush. And they do it so well. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The last minute holiday race does not bring the best out in me. That is why I am trying to be intentional with my planning. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This year, my hope is to change the race - to a pace - of rest and hope and peace. </span><br />
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Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-790107245230307912012-10-11T20:18:00.000-04:002012-10-11T20:18:36.765-04:0031days - Gifts; Make your List<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-mcZVjpQ-AqU/UHA7V5TTdsI/AAAAAAAAMR4/Qaev-hqKsCA/s1600/31days.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-mcZVjpQ-AqU/UHA7V5TTdsI/AAAAAAAAMR4/Qaev-hqKsCA/s1600/31days.jpg" /></a>Once I have thought through <a href="http://hopecaptive.blogspot.com/2012/10/31-days-gifts-part-1-of.html" target="_blank">my budget and my motivation for gift giving</a>, there comes a moment when I need to just make my plans. I cannot go shopping to <i>just look for something </i>for my mom. I can't. Well, I could, but it would drive me crazy.<br />
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When I go shopping, I know what I am looking for. The only exception might be when I say "I am going to this store or that craft show. While I am there I will buy something for ...." And that is very rare.<br />
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If I happen to see something for someone WHILE I am picking up what I have gone to the store for, then I will get it. I'm not all totally legalistic with myself. (about this. but that's another 31days series in the <i>DISTANT </i>future.)<br />
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<b><i>remembering where you put it</i></b>. </div>
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I'm trying Evernote this year. I can see it from multiple devices. I like that. And it's a new (to me) program. I like that too.<br />
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Where will you make your list this year?<br />
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<br />Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-63220390433719433572012-10-10T21:03:00.001-04:002012-10-11T06:45:43.498-04:0031 days - pauseWhile I don't like putting things off to be done on the day of that is what this week has been filled with. And this afternoon, I had time set aside to write todays 31days post after picking my son up from Jazz Band and before supper. New Pumpkin Soup was in the crock pot and bread dough was rising. Not ideal, but it was going to work.<br />
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But it is a scene that replays and my imagine goes over the what-ifs one in this way or that way. And I'm drinking chamomile tea and being with my family.<br />
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Pausing to thank God for protecting the other guy and us and asking God to restore the peace in my heart.<br />
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(Thanks for letting me get my words out about it here.)<br />
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<br />Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-9539750243941505252012-10-09T08:41:00.000-04:002012-10-09T08:41:05.784-04:0031days - Top Ten Gifts to 'Have on Hand'<a href="http://www.manylittleblessings.com/" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"><img alt="Top Ten Tuesday at Many Little Blessings" height="114" src="http://www.manylittleblessings.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/top_ten_tuesday_small.png" width="150" /></a>It's Top Ten Tuesday over at <a href="http://www.manylittleblessings.com/" target="_blank">manylittleblessings</a>.<br />
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I'm excited about this list of 10 because I don't like to be caught unprepared. As I was thinking about this list, I realized I was thinking about three things: shopping during the year, having a designated spot to put 'just in case' gifts (and not buying more than what will fit there!), and taking advantage of sales.<br />
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<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-mcZVjpQ-AqU/UHA7V5TTdsI/AAAAAAAAMR4/Qaev-hqKsCA/s1600/31days.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-mcZVjpQ-AqU/UHA7V5TTdsI/AAAAAAAAMR4/Qaev-hqKsCA/s1600/31days.jpg" /></a>I am NOT a big shopper. Generally, I don't buy it unless I know where it will go in my home or who I will give it to. I don't bargain or coupon. But every once in a while I find a sale or something that is lovely. I love going into artisan shops or to craft fairs. But I usually won't spend unless I know where it is going. With this list, I have margin to buy some of these lovely things because I know they fit in my 'have it on hand' list.<br />
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These things will fit those last minute 'oh I wish I had gotten so and so something' situations (notice how <a href="http://hopecaptive.blogspot.com/2012/10/31-days-gifts-part-1-of.html" target="_blank">I didn't say 'should have gotten'</a>). I give the Holy Spirit full permission to nudge me to give gifts in unexpected places. Not that God has to pay attention to my list but it will be a starting place. (Last year I felt as though I should give a mom friend a Valentine's gift. She said it had been over 6 years since she had been given a Valentine's treat.)<br />
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Here are <b><i>The Top Ten Gifts to 'Have on Hand'</i></b> - for Christmas or year round.<br />
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1. candles<br />
2. gift cards<br />
3. jewelry<br />
4. mugs<br />
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I'm curious. What would be on your list of things to have on hand? What did I miss?Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-68822036306620484432012-10-08T15:46:00.000-04:002012-10-08T15:46:11.186-04:0031 days - Gifts, part 1 of ??<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-mcZVjpQ-AqU/UHA7V5TTdsI/AAAAAAAAMR4/Qaev-hqKsCA/s1600/31days.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-mcZVjpQ-AqU/UHA7V5TTdsI/AAAAAAAAMR4/Qaev-hqKsCA/s1600/31days.jpg" /></a>Christmas gift giving is one of the most difficult parts of the holiday for me. I feel like there is a whole script about <strike>giving</strike> holidays that I have never seen and am only given a quick glimpse of it when I miss my line. Every which way you turn there are expectations about gifts. <b>Parents, in-laws, kids, retailers, and <i>yourself </i>- all come with something that falls between hope and entitlement</b>.<br />
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Marc and I know that the 'reason for the season' isn't gifts. There have been times that we have been minimal in gift giving because of conviction and times we have been minimal because we were broke. There have been times when we have been generous out of God's abundance in the previous year, and times we have been generous out of guilt and pain.<br />
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<b>Preparing my heart and home to give gifts</b> at Christmas starts with two questions:<br />
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<li><b><i><span style="font-size: large;">How much, as a good steward of what God has given us, can we spend?</span></i></b> Looking at our whole financial picture - for the year, not just December - what is our limit? Starting with this limit, we will decide what is going to get spent on whom. We will remember to include those incidentals that I mentioned <a href="http://hopecaptive.blogspot.com/2012/10/ten-things-to-budget-for-during.html" target="_blank">last Tuesday</a>.</li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;"><b><i>What is my motivation for spending?</i></b></span> Am I buying or making gifts as a celebration of God's goodness to me and my family? Or am I trying to appease some guilt or loneliness? Am I seeking approval and trying to impress? Or am I making choices to give out of my love-dance with God that celebrates the gift of His Son? </li>
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Being aware of my financial limit NOW allows me to strategically make gift choices. Being aware of my motivation for giving gives me time to spend inviting God to search my heart and change me; to bring me back to the place where I know His love and His approval and can give gifts to others in response to Him; rather than giving gifts to others to get what only amounts to a shadow of approval and acceptance.<br />
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<i><span style="font-size: x-small;">(As I was re-reading this before hitting 'publish' it occurred to me that that the same questions about motivation should be asked as we get ready to receive, just as much as as we get ready to give.)</span></i><br />
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<br />Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17680536202032513021noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16597122.post-58562182742316168432012-10-07T20:42:00.000-04:002012-10-07T20:42:16.662-04:0031 days of Christmas Preparation - First Week ReviewThis month I am participating in the 31 day blog challenge with over 1200 folks. Check out the list at <a href="http://www.thenester.com/2012/09/31-dayers-2012.html" target="_blank">The Nesting Place</a> to see all the amazing things people are writing about every day this month. I'm writing about getting ready my home and myself ready to be fully present during the Christmas season.<br />
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Here is a wrap up of my first week, the dates that I set for myself, and some updates:<br />
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<li>October 1 - <a href="http://hopecaptive.blogspot.com/2012/10/31-days-getting-house-ready.html" target="_blank">Getting the House Ready</a> - made some significant progress in sorting our decorations and reclaiming our basement craft space, need to set up the Christmas tree to see if there is any water damage (mold) from our basement flood</li>
<li>October 2 - <a href="http://hopecaptive.blogspot.com/2012/10/ten-things-to-budget-for-during.html" target="_blank">10 Things to Include in your Christmas Budget</a> - this was the highest trafficked day on my blog ever. THANKYOU!</li>
<li>October 3 - <a href="http://hopecaptive.blogspot.com/2012/10/31days-crafty-question-of-christmas.html" target="_blank">Making Crafty Plans </a> - I helped my 13yo son do a time-map today as he was trying to decide if he wants to pick up an old hobby. I am going to do the same thing for myself this week as I narrow my crafty commitments in </li>
<li>October 4 - <a href="http://hopecaptive.blogspot.com/2012/10/31-days-international-plans.html" target="_blank">Making International Gift Plans</a> - mailed by November 12</li>
<li>October 5 - <a href="http://hopecaptive.blogspot.com/2012/10/fiveminutefriday-welcome.html" target="_blank">Thoughts on Welcome and Preparing</a> - a five minute friday post written while on vacation. I get points all around :)</li>
<li>October 6 - <a href="http://hopecaptive.blogspot.com/2012/10/31-days-holiday-cards-and-letters.html" target="_blank">Christmas Cards and Letters</a> - mailed by November 20 (I am pretty sure what image I am going to use for a custom card and can begin writing the letter and compiling addresses this week)</li>
<li>October 7 - <a href="http://hopecaptive.blogspot.com/2012/10/31-days-book-tradition.html" target="_blank">One of our Holiday Traditions - Children's Books</a> - purchase by December 15</li>
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This coming week I'll be writing about calendar planning and gift planning. </div>
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